five years ago, this was the date of our first memorable meeting. after some time of chats over the phone and some text message exchange, december 2003, when it all started with a one missed call from him, we decided to meet in person although i told him that i knew him already and i don’t need to meet him up he still insist the meeting, the place was at imaculada concepcion parish 6pm on a sunday mass. what really reminds me most was his shaking hands while holding mine at “ama namin”. made me think that he’s nervous that time of our meeting  yet flattering . actually when we came there the mass was almost finished because i came late. lol i intentionally make him wait . after the mass, he invited me to have a snack at KFC kapasigan, even i told him that i want to go home . less than an hour when i received a text from someone that i needed to watch some basketball game for someone because that someone is waiting for me there . i was not thinking something deeper would be considered for both of us with that simple meeting since i don’t want to be very assuming when it comes to guys but honestly he was the first man that i have an eyeball with. and after 3days of his consistent phone calls and text messages, imagine that we are chatting at phone until mornight talking on some things some senseless and some are not that i can no longer remember but still spending so many hours on our chat. that night he confessed something to me and it made me decide easily though im not really taking those things that serious. during that time i consider relationships as come and go imagine that i even compare it to a woman’s monthly period LOL.

as i reminisce these moments of ours, i can’t help but think what made us last this long . five years ago, i used to believe that no relationship will last, as a matter of fact i give 1-2 month expiry on every relationship that i had that time, after 2 months, once i got disappointments even in a single mistake, i easily gave up. another reason that i definitely learned the lessons of other people who happened to have failed in their relationships.

i can’t imagine that this person had changed my P-O-V towards the fact that i am planning to live the rest of my boring life alone. well maybe he’s proven so many things to me, things that even in his simple, baduy yet kilig manner, he made me changed my future plans in my life. he choose me, do i need to be glad about it? definitely. his consistently fighting for me, even considering those moments that i wanted to separate he still holds on to the “us” issue . he always puts me in his most priority which made me really proud and blessed and lucky of giving him the chance… of having him…

2 more nights and after 3 days we will be celebrating our 5th year anniversary…

Happily fifth year anniversary of being together for both of us…

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